Hey gay bros

I'm seeking advice and insight. I'm 20M versatile and I've had multiple partners(3), but consistently encounter the same issue: I'm praised for my skills in sucking but when it's my turn to receive oral sex, I end up stopping them due to lack of pleasure or discomfort.

I'm confident in my ability to give good oral, but receiving seems to be a different story. Being a vers bottom with a big 🍆 I usually don't like dominating my partner, I don't want to see them uncomfortable , but at the cost of my pleasure, it always feels like plain licking to me, they kinda don't get my sensitive points.

Is this a common issue? Am I doing something wrong? How can I improve communication and find pleasure?

Any advice, personal experiences, or suggestions welcome.