Hey guys. So, my husband (35) and I (31) have been together for 12 years, married almost 6. Our sex life took a steady dive and could be months in between any kind of sex.

We recently had a really difficult conversation and I told him I need sex regularly and I want to feel desired. He’s taken it on board and things have improved over the last few weeks.

Our sex life only consists of oral and mutual masturbation which I do love but I really want to bottom. I’ve got into solo prostate play and love it. I’d love for him to finger, rim and eventually fuck me.

How should I approach the topic? I don’t want to pressure him, especially as sex has been an issue in our relationship