Hey everyone. I’m a 35 year old, who is finally strong enough on coming out to everyone in my family and friends. I’m new to this part in life so I need some helpful tips ( pun intended ) . I’ve tried Grindr a couple of times but always end up deleting the profile. I get weird feelings from who I talk to on it. I live north of Austin Tx area, but not sure what app to use to feel safer about meet ups, and not sure what places or areas I can go for safe meet ups. Not to sound like a hypocrite but, I’m also ok with gloryholes but I don’t know where any are. Can anyone who knows any safe places around this area or anyone who can recommend a safer alternative app besides Grindr I will forever be in your debt. Thank you all kindly and have a wonderful day!