I know this is a weird question but I have autism and I find making non gay friends difficult because they often make it weird or end up being hateful and I find making gay friends very difficult because all gay men I tried to befriend either are really mean to me for no reason or treat the entire friendship as if I’m trying to sleep with them when I’m just trying to find someone to play games with, \ \ I try to be friendly but I find young gay spaces extremely hyper aggressive, and I get where that aggression comes from but I just don’t have the mental facilities to be okay with being constantly called fat or ugly as a “joke” for no reason, I am very exhausted with Stans and how they act, and I’m tired of hyper sexuality, \ \ I know this was a vent’ish post but my tldr is how can I find queer friends my age if I’m neurodivergent and I get constantly suffer from being bullied by them, what spaces can I go to, what part of my behavior should I change