I’m probably just venting but also want to know what your thoughts are on this.

I’m someone who typically hooks up with people I meet from growlr or scruff if we agreed to meet because that’s apparently what I think we’re there for. Just looking for no strings attached and fwbs. I’ve have that clear in my profiles too.

Recently for the first time ever I went to meet this man who just happened to be close to where I was at then.

He wanted to have dinner so I agreed and we split bills. It was a great conversation, getting to know each other. By the end of the day he offered me to come over to his place and I was horny so I went.

While we cuddled he got me into talking about “what we are and was this a date” I was plain an said I am only looking for fun. But then he kinda lured me into getting me into a relationship with him while we were cuddling but I never said yes but he managed to get a yes for friendship.

If we were talking about this while at the dinner table, I probably would’ve handled it better but I felt trapped when he asked me this question in that moment.

I’m not even sure if I wanted to move forward with the friendship because now he has my number and socials.

How do I gracefully unfuck this?