I'm 28 & live in New Jersey (currently working on a move to Las Vegas to live with my boyfriend), and I'm polyamorous with 3 boyfriends (in a long-distance relationship; one lives in Vegas, one lives in Seattle, and #3 lives in Russia but wants to emigrate to the States).

Men frequently reject me because of my size, and another reason is I've heard "You're not my type" hundreds of times. They also think I'm way too short (I'm 5'3"/160cm) and they say "I like tall guys".

I'm uncut and 4 inches soft, and 7 inches hard.

I end up turning a few guys down because they only want bottoms, and I'm vers - but because I have a connection with my boyfriend (a top an alpha dom), I pretend to be a bottom and brought in 2 bottoms into our relationship, so I could get my needs met.

I had a crush on a friend (we've been close friends for 7 years and we have so much in common romantically), but sexually, we're not compatible - he won't even date me because I'm vers; he says he's open to bottoming one minute, and the next, he says he only wants a bottom. I'd rather date femboys and twinks..... who prefer bottoming and will settle down with me.......

I like bottoming, but I'm a vers top as well - I also would love to top someone, but guys frequently assume I'm a bottom because - let's face it - I live in America, where circumcision is the norm. My dad was from Bermuda, and sadly, I have a foreign cock (and uncut cocks are just not seen as desirable in American culture).

I just wish I could find a bottom for myself, who's also looking for a relationship & wants to settle down...... is that too much to ask?

Photos of me (Warning: 1 selfie, 2 nudes): https://imgur.com/a/7cZP3ka