Yesterday, I experienced a strange situation on Sniffies. A guy messaged me—he was super jacked and hung—and initially, I didn’t reply because I couldn’t host. He then offered to host and was very persistent, which surprised me given how jacked he was. He wasn’t the most handsome in the face, but he was buff.

He asked for my number, and I gave him a spam number I use before deciding if I can trust someone. He called and started asking what I like, my ethnicity, whether I do raw, and if I liked fisting—something I make clear on my profile that I’m into. I told him that if we were to do fisting, I’d need to prep, and he said that was okay.

He then asked if his friend could join in for a threesome and sent a picture. I agreed and said I was ready to get destroyed by the two guys. He then mentioned that his friend, who had the key to their place, was texting me. This should’ve been a red flag since it was from the same phone.

When I got there, he was super persistent about the time and insisted that we had to be quiet because his roommate was sleeping. Remember, I was supposed to be getting destroyed by two guys and made to moan like crazy, so this was odd. He also mentioned that he was really into guys wearing thongs.

I didn’t prep for anything because I thought it was just going to be regular anal. I asked if his friend was coming, and he said yes. As we started, I assumed the friend was on the way. But then he started saying really weird things like talking about "pozz loads" and other fetishes that I’m only vaguely familiar with.

Things got weirder—he tried to fist me without enough lube, and his nails were untrimmed, so I pulled away. Eventually, he finished, and as I was leaving, I realized he was probably the one texting me all along. I felt confused and violated, wondering why he would lie to get me to sleep with him when I might have agreed if he had just been honest.

Another odd detail: he had a tan line from wearing a thong, and his toenails were painted. This left me even more confused about his intentions, considering he’s clearly gay.

TL;DR: I met a guy on Sniffies who seemed eager for a threesome but might have catfished me by pretending to be two people. He was into things that made me uncomfortable, and the experience left me feeling confused and violated. I’m not sure why he wasn’t upfront, considering I might have been interested anyway.