4 years ago, I met this guy online and we instantly clicked. We became friends then we kinda drifted away from one another. Then every year, we tried to reconnect and it kinda worked until we drifted away. Then last year, when we reconnected for the last time, I confessed that I like him a lot and ever since we met I kinda know that I like him. Hell, I even think he's my first love. When I confessed my feelings, he said he also felt the same but the only problem is that he doesn't do LDR. So nowadays, whenever I find someone whom I think interesting, I entertain them. But I really can't feel the chemistry that me and my first love had, my question is am I broken? Or is really true that when you love someone and you didn't work out, there's a part of you that had been chipped away? Because I really feel like I can't love with the same intensity as I had with him.

PS: A query from a 21 year old guy.