Hey all,

I'm a 33yo heteroflexible married guy with the most supportive wife ever. I'm not exactly a stranger to anal play. I've experimented a lot during my life with toys and such. I'm going to meet up with a guy I've fooled around with before. I tried to bottom last time but I don't think I was relaxed enough. I want to try again this time but I want to succeed.

The problem is that he's so thick, 😳 but I know I've been opened up that much before so I should be able to do it again. We're meeting up at his place Sunday. Any tips, tricks, and positions that we should try to make it easier? Maybe advice on how to get out of my own head without drugs and alcohol. Lube recommendations? Any and all help is super appreciated please and thank you!