In an open gay relationship where hookups are allowed but nothing more, do you let your partner know when you hook up? Do you ever use your shared home or bed for hookups?

How do you manage jealousy, especially when your partner is out on a hookup, and you're home alone?

Personally, I'm okay with NSA (no strings attached) hookups together with another person or people. However, the idea of my partner being out on a hookup while I'm home alone seems like it would build jealousy.

I consider open relationships distinct from polyamory, which I think is a separate concept.

I would really love some tips and information on managing jealousy in open relationships. It's something I'm interested in, but the jealousy aspect is a concern. Part of me fears this might be inevitable given my sexual appetite and the need to find someone who matches it. I do think it's possible to have a healthy open relationship; it's just about how it's structured. The thought of the unknown is what worries me.

If some people are willing to answer questions in a deeper sense please dm me!