I was talking to a sexy bloke on Grindr, and since neither of us could host, we met at a discreet public spot. I’d seen pictures of him on his profile, as well as face pics he’d sent me. However, when he showed up, he looked significantly older than he did in those photos, and had also gained a bit of weight. Now, those things didn’t matter to me, I still thought he was sexy. So I get on my knees for this man, and I’m giving him a blowjob that he seemed to enjoy. I noticed, however, that he was on his phone for a lot of the blowjob. So I took him out of my mouth and asked if he was recording me. It turns out he had been recording me and was about to send me the video. I didn’t want it, asked him to delete it and I made him delete it from his “recently deleted” folder too. Then I got back to the task at hand until we were done. I’m really glad I did stop him from keeping that video, bc it was a turn off that he’d film me without my consent. Would you have gone back to blowing him if you caught him filming you without your consent? Or am I too much of a people pleaser?