Hey dudes.

M33 went out on two short dates with M31 - 2 hour coffee and walk, and 1 hour chat. Everything felt quite sweet, natural, funny. Both felt a bit of a boner when hugging goodbye.

Been texting back and forth for several days, and jokingly he mentioned that he wants to see my dick, and I just played it off. Then he randomly sent his dick pic, and got a bit annoyed I didn’t instantly sent it. I explained that if I’m looking to date, I like to get there naturally, maybe through flirty convo, and not be forced to.

I feel conflicted. I know if I send one now, I’ll feel like I’ve sacrificed my boundary, just to have a potential next date, and that would be on my mind.

But if I don’t send he will most likely not want to have another date.

Feels like we’re both at a stand still, and neither is looking to budge. At this point kinda feels like it’s a game over 🤷‍♂️

What alternatives or middle ground solutions would you propose in my situation?