I’m not shaming or anything but genuinely very curious. I only recently started trying Sniffies for hookups and I’ve seen guys goto a Red Roof Inn and host a Pump and Dump. My immediate thought was Poppers and yes some have mentioned it but then there are some that say they don’t use it.

With Poppers, how are these guys able to constantly use it?? I thought there are so many negative health side effects? And with guys that don’t use Poppers, HOW??? Is there lube that works that good? Do they train their hole? Is there a magical tool for relaxing the hole?

I like to think I’m a bottom but it has hurt for the times I’ve done it. I don’t think I feel anxious and I feel like a good amount of foreplay and lube are used but idk what to do. I’m thinking of using anal plugs and i heard that CBD suppositories are a thing that may help. Does wine or weed help relax a hole?