This is a rant

For reference I'm a 26 y/o dude living in a pretty big city my taste is pretty varied and I enjoy hooking up with older guys and guys my age. As long as I find you attractive we can go from there. Last week I met up with this dude who showed up looking older than his pics (greying hair instead of fully black, slightly more weight, and a couple other things in gen at least 15 years older looking than what he sent) what's crazy to me is I was still very attracted to this guy and ended up hooking up with him but the fact he lied and catfished me killed any chance of me ever meeting up with him again. I've literally hooked up with other men older than this guy who were actually honest about their appearances and had a great time.

Sometimes I feel like some men just enjoy the high/power of lying instead just being honest. It's such a problem in this community. It's not the first time I've been catfished, the worst I told them to leave my apartment lol.

Rant over. People just shouldn't catfish. Embrace yourself as you are, lying about your appearance doesn't really work when you eventually do have to meet with people.