I’ve been messaging with this really hot guy. I want to fuck, he wants to fuck. But he told me he’s into race play and asked if I’d be open to it. He’s Black and I’m white. I’ve never had any interest in race play, and honestly, I think i’d be pretty uncomfortable actually doing it. But I told him I’m open to it, basically because he’s hot and I want to fuck him. 🤷🏻‍♂️ But I don’t think I can actually go through with it.

In particular, it seems he wants me to demean him based on his race, and he wants to be “obedient” to me. It honestly kind of has me floored that someone would ask me this. I’m having a hard time understanding the psychology behind this. I’ve hooked up with many, many guys and a majority have been POC, but no one’s ever asked anything like this.

Are there any men of color here who are into this? If so, what’s the appeal? I’m honestly just curious.

Btw, I realize this is a pretty loaded topic, so I may end up deleting this depending on what type of comments this gets.