NOTE:this isn’t me saying im not attracted to black guys. i don’t discriminate based on race (since im a fellow black gay bro myself). however, across the apps such as grindr, jack’d, etc when i encounter other black men they seem to be polar opposites. they’re either at the extreme end being very dl, hypermasculine or very fem and neither one is my type. im attracted to just normal regular guys that dont make being lgbt their whole personality trait and for this reason, it makes it harder to find black men that i want to hook up with. i know this happens within all races/ethnicities but i notice it with black guys more

how do you guys feel? have yall had this experience as well or no? let me know below