New, kinda shy working on it. I go out no one is interested because I'm not part of there preferences another way of saying I rather not deal with black guys. Try to actually make small talk guys will literally walk away. My best friend who happens to be white and straight thought i was being sensitive he came to be my wing man 1 night. Not really looking for anything but to just meet ppl. He went to the bathroom and heard guys talking shit about the chubby black guy. "ME" this has happened several times now and I told myself I'd probably just go back to women if this is how guys are. But I'm wondering how many other pocs deal with this in the community. Like I'm only wanted when someone has a fetish or kink and I'm like wtf. How the fuck do u navigate a space where the only ppl that feel safe look nothing like u. Long Beach, west Hollywood dtla I've experienced this in all of these cities are LA guys just assholes. Mind u I'm from here and bi.