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I know that this may make me sound somewhat crazy and immature, but this is really starting to bother me and I need an outside perspective...
I should preface this by stating that my boyfriend of six months is on Instagram a lot. He posts most days. He took pictures of us together on our first few dates, which is nice to look back on now, but seems odd: does he have pictures of everyone he's ever dated? I don't really like having my picture taken, which is a separate issue I should probably look into, so a month in I asked him to stop taking them every time because I wasn't enjoying it, and then a month later I had to really ask him to stop asking me.
So I don't have Instagram (I do, but I've posted three pictures ever) so maybe I just don't get it. But there are a lot of pictures of his ex boyfriend (they broke up September last year after four years together) only a few swipes down. Everyone has a past. I completely accept that. We're not each others first loves and I have pics of some of my ex's, but they are deep in a box of photos in my dad's loft, not something that I access every day. I'm friends with a couple of my ex's (he has a problem with one of them) but they're not friends. He told me this guy physically abused him. He saw him in the street recently and my boyfriend hid. He never wants to see him again.
So is it weird that he's not deleted him from Instagram or am I just being a bit of a bunny boiler? I tried to bring this up with him, but he said they're his memories and he can't delete his memories.
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