i met someone on Grindr, and the sex was great. we exchanged apps, and after that, everytime we want action, we just message each other. this has been happening for almost a year now.

and it's not just sex, there are talking afterwards, cuddling, then we go for another round.

so i want this to be more of a permanent setup, and I've tried to drop hints about that fact, like maybe we could go out, watch a movie, go on a hiking trip, but he always mention work and money stuff.

he did make it clear in the beginning to never fall in love with people, not him specifically, from those apps, so I don't really push it and if he doesn't message or reply, i never follow it up.

but it's such a shame because we get along so well, and i dont want to keep looking up for people just for a random hookup.