Just curious, this is a question for younger into older or maybe you were younger and have always liked older men. I'm 46 btw, why are younger guys attracted to men in their 40s and beyond? I mean aside from obtaining security, money, a home, vacations, a cuisinart, I just can't see how an older man is physically attractive to a younger guy. I'm only asking because while I've always liked guys of age up to their 40's, I'm a bit self conscious now around younger guys cause they are into different things than I am, just like when I was younger. I started realizing the past several years that if I want to be physically attracted to a guy long term for dating I would have to meet this stallion now in his 20's or 30's so that by the time I get to my 60s, I will actually have a 40ishyr old dude around that is yeah waning in the looks dept but now that we've been together for a couple decades he won't leave me haha, idk. Thoughts anyone? I realize that you can be attracted to personalities but c'mon if you had a choice between a guy that was smoking hot in his 20s and a guy in his 40s that was very attractive for his age, wouldn't you choose a man that's more viral, relate to more easily and can be more equally adventurous when it comes to recreational things? I mean you can't really want a guy in his 60's and beyond? I sound shallow but this is bugging me and I hate aging :( I just don't want to be alone forever.