I was getting to know this guy and he told me this word for word: “I have a hierarchy for how i value people. I put myself first, my friends second, then whoevers going to be my partner will be third. I know what i want in life”

He also brought up this concept called relationship anarchy wherein you have the autonomy to decide how you value your relationships instead of relying on how society expects you to value your relationships. I respect his choice to value his friends over his partner considering that they were with him through thick and thin, and his relationships with his previous partners didnt exactly end in good terms. However, it turned me off and i lost interest in keeping contact, i eventually just let us drift apart because i cant shake off the feeling that im going to feel neglected and put on the sidelines for his friends if thing’s progressed any further. Am i wrong for feeling this way?