I'm 23 years old and still yet to go on a date. There are multiple factors that have lead to this, anxiety, recently diagnosed autism, and weight issues. But a big one is that I'm unable to feel pleasure from penile or anal stimulation with guys. I get shivers when a guy touches my face, arms or back as it feels good, but as soon as they touch my balls or hole it's nothing but discomfort and sometimes pain.

It makes me just wanna not go out on dates because I feel broken, like there's something wrong with me that I can't enjoy this standard biological response.

Has anyone else had any experience with this and managed to overcome it? Or am I just destined to never be able to have sex