I’ve started to become really close with a couple of guys who have been married for several years. I met one of them first, I knew he was married, his husband knew he was having dinner with me. It’s all been ethically open.

After meeting his husband a few times I’m finding that I really like both of them. They are very communicative with each other. Is it possible to fall for a couple? They’ve both told me together and individually that the both really like me and that their husband likes me. My biggest fear is ruining something great that they have together.

Any advice? I’ve had threesome experiences before, but they were one-offs, this feels different and wonderful, but also causes a bit of anxiety.