hi, so me and this guy met in november. ever since i saw him i knew i wanted to talk to him and we became friends pretty quick. we started snapping and as a month passed, we got comfortable with each other. but i then realized that we would be flirty with how we talked and i noticed that he wouldn’t act like that with his other friends. i eventually caught feelings for him and then we started hanging out. also, me and him have never hung out alone. but moving on, the first time we hung out he introduced me to one of his friends and since then we all started hanging out as a trio. this is where i started to overlook his friend and get jealous. side comment; tbh i really think his friend is straight. but sometimes i overthink something and i think that he secretly likes his friend, but they’ve also been friends for a long time and if something were to happen i feel like it would’ve already. anyways, after a few hangouts, he started to get annoying and he started acting dumb when we were with his friend. i would get over it but it would just annoy me in the moment. we later started to have sleepovers, it first started with me sleeping with his friend on his bed but then after a few sleepovers his friend moved to a mattress and we started sleeping on his friends bed together. since then I started feeling like chills every time he would touch me. there’s been times where i’ve just slept on his shoulder and he would put his head above mine. we would also sometimes lock arms while we were in bed together, but we’ve never done or have gotten close to do anything. the three of us hung out at few weeks ago and we were all in his friends car. his friend was driving and he was in the passenger seat and i sat behind him. so me and him have this obsession over olives and i had brought some that day but i didn’t really like them, he asks me for the last 2 in the bag but i tell him no i’ll give them to you later. he starts saying “why later, it’s not even like ur going to eat them, u don’t even like them” but i just continue to deny him and i tell him ill give it to him later. so, after a little, his friend starts calling a girl and he gets me talk to her. i start talking to her and having a conversation with her and he sort of tries to hide from the camera. at this time i had put the olives in the side door pocket and i have my hand over the olive bag. i continued talking to this girl, but then he starts playing with my hand and at first i didn’t want to play back because what if he was just doing it as a joke, i didn’t want it to make it weird, but after a little i just gave in and i started to play back. his friend ends up ending the call and i ask who the girl was and he stalled for a second and asked him if he can tell me who she is, and it turns out that the girl i was just on the phone with was his ex girlfriend, i asked why they broke up but i never got a response. back to what happened before. two guys just don’t do that right? ever since that happened ive just been more confused. i don’t know what he wants, i was happy that happened but i don’t know what it means. does he want something? are we just friends? or am i overthinking it all?