Like the title says, I wanna try something new, but I'm not sure exactly how to go about it.

I am a 28, turning 29 in a few days, year old male who has enjoyed having hookups. I am located in the USA, in the Midwest. The times that I am able to hookup are always great, but I have lately wanted to try to expand my comfort zone. I mostly bottom, but I technically am vers. But I have been wanting to have more than one guy top for me at a time. Like, a spit roast so to speak. But I haven't had much luck with finding guys that are interested in more than just a one on one. I would eventually like to be gang banged, but I wanna do it gradually. I have posted on reddit, fetlife, grindr, and more about what my sexual desires are, but have not had any luck. Is there something different that I can try to get some interest?