I began having sex with men as a top initially, people really just wanted me to fuck them for whatever reason. I’m now more of a vers, but I don’t really bottom often, and only with people that I really like.

Lately I have been finding topping much less enjoyable, to a point that I can’t seem to really focus during sex(and can’t stay hard long enough as a consequence) I think it’s because in the past, I have fucked a lot of people not out of my own desire, but I was more in a headspace of wanting to make them feel good. And that in some way becomes a burden in my head, that I have to perform well to satisfy the bottoms(even in the cases of when I’m not really attracted to the person, and I think I have decent amount of experiences just fucking people that I wasn’t really into)

I still want to top, but I don’t know how I can regain my interest or confidence being one, I always received compliments from people that I was a good top. But I think now I think too much during the act of it. And if I sense the great anticipation for the guy, I sorta just feel a little bit nervous..

Any advice bros?!