Tldr at the bottom*

So mine is about a guy i almost dated over 2 years ago now. We met on tinder. He seemed really nice at 1st. Was pretty slow at responding which didn't bother me too much but otherwise an all around good guy. He was very hyper sexual. Don't get me wrong, i am too, but he'd bring up something sexual or be flirty at random times even after a random conversation. Never bothered me. (This is important for later).

About a month or so good by with us talking on and off and so far so good. One day we plan to meet up. It was like a month in advance. As the days get closer he said he wasn't sure if he was looking for more than friends. I said i was on with being just friends. And then a few days go by where he says he regretted saying that and changed his mind. And then he changed his mind again. Then he started talking to another guy and i tried to win him over.

One day he opened up to me a bit and it was a nice conversation. Then i don't remember how, but after that conversation was over, i don't remember how it happened, but we started talking about celebrity crushes and i said mine was Tom Holland. He said he was into Tom Holland also and we started talking about his body in detail and stuff like that and i started to get horny and l said something sexual towards him and all the sudden he got pissed. I was so confused but apparently it was "too soon" after he opened up to me. I apologized for the next hour at least. He then said he only wanted to be friends and i quote "don't try to talk me back into being anything more cause it's not happening". I told him "ok i can be happy being friends."

Fast forward a few months later and not only did he continue reaching out during those months that past, he kept changing his mind about wanting to be with me, AND he also never got over that time i brought up something sexual at the "wrong time" and brought it up every chance he had. I told him i was done and started talking to other guys myself.

Fast forward to when i got a new bf (who I'm still with to this day) he reached out and asked if i was still single. I told him no and he got nasty. Left him on ready and never looked back.

He eventually did reach out again after about a half a year passed and apologized. Asked if i still had a bf and was actually kind when i said yes. Proceeded to ask if we could still be friends exc. Then a few days later we're talking and he asked if he could get my opinion on a picture of him that he wanted to send to a guy. He did not tell me what kind of pic... it was a nude. I got pissed at him and told him never to send me stuff like that again. Showed my bf later that day though 😅. We got a laugh out of it. He's cool with me swapping nudes with guys but that tinder guy didn't know that so i know he had ulterior motives. Haven't talked to that guy since then though.

Tldr: Met a hyper sexual guy on tinder that brought up sexual stuff at the most random times all the time and got upset when i did the same thing 1 time and held a grudge over it for months. He also couldn't decide if he wanted to be with me or not for months and got nasty when i gave up and met someone new. AND tried to be a home wrecker 6 moths into my new relationship seconds after asking if we could still be friends.