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Hey guys. So recently me and my boyfriend has been struggling a little bit in our relationship for the past month or so and we’ve been together for 4 years and this isn’t the first time we have struggled which is normal. First off no one has cheated or talked to anyone behind anyone’s backs in a long long time just for reference. But the situation is recently after doing ya know with him. Right after he said he had to talk to me about something and I knew it wasn’t something good. I could just tell by his face. He said that he was bi-curious and I ended up being so hurt. He was with a girl before are relationship but he was only 15 at the time and not that long after he found himself, came out as gay and we were dating since then, that was about 4 years ago when the relationship first started. He said he didn’t think of the girl he had this thought about sexually. It was just a split second thought and it just was about her personality he liked. And he only thought for a second “would I be into girls?” And then after a couple of days thought “no i can’t i like guys to much”. On my end on how I felt was very hurt in betrayed. I personally think in a relationship I can’t be with a bi man I have a lot of trust issues and it would just be to much worrying about both genders then just one. I’ve had trouble having ya know with him lately cause I keep thinking he likes girls even though he ended up telling me that it was just a thought for a couple of days and nothing more. But I’m overthinking it and have really bad anxiety so of course I’m looking more into it. Idk I need your guys advice.
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