I really like EDM parties like rave and circuit. As I just moved to NYC for my first job after college, I’d like to make more friends in the scene so that when I go to those events, I could go in a group, which is more fun and also safer. I don’t have many gay friends in the city, and none of them is into the circuit scene. So if anyone with any advice (or also a circuit gay in NYC that wants to adopt me to their friend group haha), that’d be amazing!

Note: Pls don’t comment anything like circuit scene is toxic because of all the drug use or unsafe sex. I’m always drug-free when I go to those parties, and I don’t judge if the guys are high like a kite because that’s their choice. And I think as long as the sex is consensual there is no need for any judgement.