I’ve been doing prostate play for years now and I haven’t had an orgasm from it once. I’m just sick of trying with no real result because it makes me feel broken and stupid. I just want someone to help me figure it out because I’m reaching my limit with my body not doing what generic articles online say it should. I’m gonna post stats and context below, idk if that will help but it can’t hurt.

Stats: Age - 19 Height - 5’7 Weight - 180 lbs.

I’m genuinely looking for any possible answers. I use a thick and long dildo a bit bigger than 8 inches and sometimes my fingers. I know lots of places and people online recommend finding them he prostate first, but I can’t do that either. There’s not a particular bump that stand out when I reach up in there and when use my dildos there’s not a particular spot that seems to push me over the edge.

I understand that there might be better tools to use that, like beads or a prostate massager, however, I see videos all the time of people orgasming from anal while having sex and using a dildo so it just gets exhausting. I really need help with this because it’s really effecting my mental health.