This question has been bugging me. I see a gay guy and in my eyes he’s the stereotypical, chiseled 10/10 attractive guy. I can imagine both gay men and women fawn over him (I could be wrong, but i’m just assuming)

If you find yourself fitting this description, what is it that you’re ultimately looking for? Do you get a lot of unwanted attention? Do you hook up often? are you just looking to settle down? Have you had a successful relationship?

Just curious what these kind of men struggle with.

Personally, I consider myself very average. I don’t get many attention from gay men (probably unrelated to me and more for the fact that I don’t hang out in many gay places), but I do get a handful of attention from women. I have had women out their boobs on me, try to grab my crotch, try to kiss me, try to convince me that i’m straight, etc. It’s enough to where if I think a woman likes me, I’m going to avoid them like the plague because I don’t want to deal with their flirtatiousness.

I can only imagine what this is like for someone who is extremely attractive. I can imagine it to be exhausting, but I want to hear stories from these kind of men. any input?