Hi guyssss, I will go for my third Carnival cruise trip,and may go with my college roommate.

Before my first cruise trip, i had actually searched how to "have fun" on the ship. Grindr and steam room. Well, I know both depends on luck, but at least I felt that you may get reply from few people from the app, and I felt like I didn't go to the steam room in the right time. Sometimes, there wasn't any people or I did not know what to say or do if there were people.

I was totally not lucky during my second trip. I had to say I was kind of give up the idea of steam room and focused on grinder. Unfotunately, the guys I had talked to never promise they could come to the bar to meet. They both had reasons that they had to stay with family, took care of younger cousin, so they could not reply or be online. I was so upset that because I could not totally believe what they said.

Back to my first trip. I actually did meet a nice guy in the third evening and planned to suck him on the last day, but I was so stupid and slow that he actually wanted me to invite him to my room in the earlier days. The other thing was he also had to stay with his aunt, so I could not get his reply after half a day. In the evening, I just began having my dinner, and he sent me a video that he was naked and played his brother. I replied wow, thats great, and I told him I was having dinner. I did not realize that it was a sign that he wanted me to find him....ahhhh why not just asked me!!!! Finally, on the last day on ship, the ship was rockey and I was so tired. I thought he did not want to find me, so I did not have fun with him. In the morning of leaving the ship, I told him it was a pity I did not make it. He said he thought I wasnt interested with him, so he gave up. I was confused and sad because he actually did not ask me directly. Ok, I said I was stupid and slow, but he wasnt clear. After the trip, I finally knew that I indeed met two mature gays in the steam room and I recognized the tatoo of one of them on the Grindr, but I was nervous to ask. On the other hand, I had met that guy, so I thought it was fine.

so...May I get any suggestion for my next cruise trip? Thank you guys...I even hope I can have fun with some hot crew members, which is not really possible though.