I’ve been a lurker for about 6 months passively applying tid bits with some what good responses. However, I recently just swallowed the damn pill and applying it daily for a couple weeks. I give my wife recognition when shes being good and pull my attention when she’s being bad.

My question is do you give recognition for giving damn good sex?

Background:

I tried be flirtatious yesterday based off of Athols book sex primer. Gave her a few sensual kisses, pulling her neck in close etc. Well about an hour before bed I went for the kill and was denied. I stayed cool and went on to do some more reading (which I was planning on doing anyway). Well low and behold she kept trying to start a conversation about the most random shit. But I stuck my course and kept reading while pulling my attention from her conversations. The less I entertained her the more she wanted me to talk to her. After I finished reading I went to bed. She came maybe 5min after to bed and driving her ass towards me like a cat in heat.

The Sex: I was different in my candor this time. Usually very consciousnesses of her and trying to give her an orgasm you know, beta shit. Well this time I went in cave man style and went for what I wanted. I go down on her which is normal but I go down cause that’s my shit and I like doing it regardless if she does but I was ravenous this time. Flipping her, pulling her as I pleased. Through all of this we ended up inverted to near a 69 position.

She doesn’t like to 69 but happens every once in a while but this time she initiated it and started going to town. I was like hell yeah and was close to exploding which I hardly ever do from a oral. Was about to pull back cause I know she enjoys the sex but stayed my course of cave manning and just let it fly. Well to my amazement, she loved it. She loved it so much she kept trucking along and then riding me to hers.

All that to say, I fucking loved it. Part of me wants me to let her know that she did a great fucking job fucking.