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"Attachment Style" in the context of this post refers to how we relate sexually, romantically, socially, etc to others in order to meet our relational needs
To preface, I'm past the point of thinking that something is "wrong" with me for wanting to transition into a shemale. Why? I know that regardless of how I modify my body (or what gender label I use), I'm still ultimately going to be who I am and live the life I was living before, just with a body that makes me feel more authentic and beautiful. There is no delusion about the outcome of that choice. There will be no transformation into someone else, just an emotional benefit.
Also, I don't see any point in trying to "cure" my AGP/crossdressing. My normal life will go on, regardless of whether I'm outwardly expressing femininity or not as a man. I'm failing to see the great melodramatic tradegy in indulging such a desire.
What I am wondering though, is if AGP is something that developed at least partially environmentally as an abnormal way to meet our needs. Sexuality and by extension romance are some of the ways in we meet our need for connection (and if you're heterosexual, continue the human race).
I've found that ever since opening up emotionally, which for me is inextricably linked to expressing AGP, I'm far more open to being vulnerable enough to consider relationships with men, women and transwomen. Additionally, I feel more "whole" (emotionally satiated) while being feminine, even if I'm alone.
This is making we wonder if the development of AGP has something to with a means to meet our attachment and/or emotional needs (I'm not getting into what specific event caused. I don't know and you probably don't either, no offense).
Thoughts?
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