I think it's apparent to everyone that any questioning of the self-concept of transwomen (at least online) is met with extreme backlash and jannie-tranny-bannie.

There seems to be a running theme of said community using aggressive activism to get society to ignore the obvious consequences of biolology (examples: freakouts when people call a non-passing transwomen sir).

What's the mindset behind wanting to enforce your gender-concept on others (via the government or socially) instead of just being happy keeping it to yourself?

TLDR: Why do most transwomen "insist" on others treating them as women, instead of just appreciating it when it happens voluntarily?