In my experience as an Asian vixen, with Asian hotwife/vixen friends, I believe that if the right circumstances are created in a relationship, which many women sadly overlook, 7 out of 10 men would not only happily allow their wives or girlfriends to indulge in erotic encounters with other men but would genuinely revel in it. Now, this may sound wild, but let me explain why it's the case.

Many people, both men and women, have been socially conditioned to believe that if their partner is intimate with someone else, it means they don't love, respect, or cherish them. However, imagine if you could show your partner that engaging in such tantalizing experiences actually deepens your love, respect, and trust because everything is shared openly, leaving no room for secrets. This level of connection goes far beyond physical intimacy and allows for a true melding of minds, with a love so strong that no matter who you play with, they belong to you, and you belong to them.

With this understanding in place, wouldn't any loving partner want their significant other to be fulfilled in every aspect of life, including sexually? The concept of compersion, or deriving pleasure from the happiness of others, plays a significant role in a healthy, passionate relationship. Your partner's life can be enriched by witnessing the ecstasy you find in new sexual experiences, both with and without them.

From coaching other women on the lifestyle, I've noticed that 7 out of 10 men have the potential to overcome societal conditioning and embrace the shared joys of compersion in a relationship built on trust, open communication, emotional intimacy, mutual respect, and shared values. Once these elements are in place, embracing the hotwife or vixen lifestyle becomes a natural progression in a relationship.

Historically, there's evidence that this is precisely how humans experienced sex for much of pre-recorded history. We've only created these sexually repressive shackles for women in the last 5,000 years or so, a relatively brief period. The truth is, most of the women you're related to were hotwives or vixens in the modern sense, uninhibited and free to explore their desires.

The remaining 3/10 usually have deep rooted insecurities that originate from some sort of early trauma. The result of this insecurity is overwhelming jealousy and anxious attachment which precludes their ability to realize giving your partner sexual freedom, and then having them come back to your bed is one of the greatest forms of mutual trust, intimacy and respect that can be shown in a relationship.