It's not something I've seen before so I'm curious. I identify most closely with grey/demi-ace and have come out to a handful of friends saying so.

For the most part I explain how sex/sexual attraction has no role whatsoever in my choice of partner and my main attractions are emotional/platonic some aesthetic. Also I generally mention needing a strong emotional connection before i consider sex.

It's a few of my female friends (I'm male) have said this but from their reflections it's clear they don't get it; feels very reductive and dismissive.

No particular reason for sharing than to see if others have had this and their responses.