I’ve wondered what the heck my problem has been since I was a teenager!! I’ve lived through two marriages, have (very, very happily) had two (now young adult) children, been in love with a man before (who eventually called me first “frigid”, then “a dyke”) and also deeply loved a few women. But somehow, the relationships just weren’t.... “right”.

I’ve been very happily single for 4 years now. But wondering what’s “wrong” with me. It’s not that I don’t want companionship... so I’ve been searching for answers, when low and behold I look into the term “asexual”. It almost got me perfectly... so I looked deeper...

And behold!! I’ve learned that all along I’m a grey-a biromantic!!! I feel like I just won a million dollars!!! There’s a name for people like me!!!

I just had to share! And I’m so delighted to have found this subreddit!! Thanks for being here! As a newly self-discovered grey-a, are there any things I should know? Any other subreddits I should find and join? TIA!!