Hello all. Pardon me for posting here.

I’m 32 M and was in a marriage for 5 years. The marriage just ended. The entire time of the marriage, she kept asking me if I ever intended to have sex with her, and it was a topic of conversation I honestly avoided. Now, I’m pretty sure I’m ace. I find it difficult to have sex talks with a partner I’m romantically interested in. I have other friends that I have no problems talking about sex with.

My request is this…is there anywhere on reddit that might point me to a (local) in person community I might be able to reach out to? I was raised extremely religious, so the LGBTQ community is one I never imagined being a part of. I did not (and do not) attack or alienate the community, but I understand how it comes across when someone mentions religion and LGBTQ .

Honestly, what I’m looking for is some community and resources to help me figure myself out. I’ve been on the ace communities of reddit for several days and I see more than a few comments about how aces aren’t always seen in the LGBTQ community. Is this really true?