I've (27 enby/afab) have been operating under the asexual umbrella for a while now because I was uninterested in sex with others/felt no desire to any person in real life that I thought was akin to sexual attraction. I was only dating straight cis men once upon a time. But lately I've been dating in the queer field and have found myself actually finding individuals cute and considering sexual relations with them, which is new and unexplored territory for me. So now I have questions. Like whether me thinking someone is cute/has an appealing appearance is considered "sexual attraction"? What does sexual attraction feel like to people who aren't ace? Am I still asexual if I see someone and I see myself wanting/willing to have sex and/or try sexual things with them? If not, then what label or identity might feel more appropriate? Feeling a bit lost and confused and hoping I can gain some clarity from the wisdom of others. ❤️