I have been identifying as grey-asexual for a few years now, however, over the past few months I've been realizing I never initiate sex/sexual activity. I never have. Even by myself it would be because someone I was flirting with told me to over text and then I'd pretend to do it. I always let it happen and I used to enjoy it a bit (overall 3/10 experience) but over the past 3 years and especially the past few weeks I've been realizing I don't actually have any desire for sexual activity. I have felt pressured by either my partner or just society and felt that I couldn't say no. I felt sex was expected of me. I am going to try my best to tell my future partners/potential partners that I am asexual right off the bat. Does anyone have any advice? I'm having a lot of life shit happening rn and this on top of it is a bit too much. How do I respect my own boundaries? How do I teach myself to put myself first and say "Hey I'm asexual and I want nothing to do with sex" when I'm talking go a partner/future partner? I feel really lost, any advice is appreciated