Context I'm Allosexual and my partner is at least demisexual if not entirely asexual. We're working through some issues surrounding expectations of sex and so I've been trying to do some research. I've seen some other people on this sub say that they or their asexual partners have floated the idea of the allosexual party pursuing casual sex with other people.

Ig the question is how common/healthy are these kinds of arrangements? We both experience sensual and platonic attraction to each other and I am still sexually attracted to her. Is it worth discussing? How do I bring it up without feeling like I'm just asking to sleep around?