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• Single/Taken/Complicated: single
• Seeking Relationship/Friends/Squish/Other: friends, possible playmates
• Romantic Orientation: aromantic
• Gender: male
• Pronouns: he/him
• Age: 34
• Height/Build: 5'9
• Physical Description: Hairy Dad Bod
• Personality Description: Demure, depending how well I get along with someone I can be more playful. Better talker online, less effective in person.
• Location: Aurora, Illinois

Guess this is a way for me to get out of my comfort zone a bit. Anyway, hi. I know this a crapshoot trying to meet someone local but why not eh. I live in northern Illinois, near the city of Aurora. Chicago is an hour and a half train ride away. I'm a kink favoured greyasexual who fancies D/s, I lean submissive. I feel like I'm caught between two worlds because I'm ace and kinky but intercourse averse so this seems more comfortable a place to post. Personally I consider myself sex-ambivalent. I have long hair, full beard, wear glasses, I like being able to play mod supportive video games, and I have cats. I reckon being able to obtain pleasure through kink is fascinating as is asexuality. I like looking at femdom art and tasteful photography. I haven't met anyone local who is ace but I imagine it would feel less isolating if I did meet a kindred lass. I'm not opposed to potential playmates but only if our compatibility was agreeable and we would play for the right reasons.