Hi,

I seem to be one of the older folks around here, but thought I'd give this a try. As the title says I'm 41 from the UK and would love to find a partner to enjoy life with. In terms of my aceishness (not a word, but I'm running with it), I'm sex indifferent, but also consider myself kink positive, but I think that's a more private conversation for down the line. On the flip side I can consider myself to be extremely romantic and love a good cuddle.

I work in tech (like every other Redditor it seems) and that keeps me very busy, but I find myself really lonely in my spare time, hence this post. In terms of hobbies and interests I'm a huge lover of cinema, bit of a foodie, big reader (big interest in psychology) and I love my sci-fi, oh and coffee is my main vice. I like to get out in nature especially if there's a cosy pub at the end of the hike.

What else? I love animals especially dogs but don't have one at the moment unfortunately, I've dealt with my fair share of challenges in my life, but like to think that I've generally remained a positive person i.e. I've become a better more considered person despite said challenges.

Feel free to say hello, while ultimately I'm looking for a partner I don't consider new friends a consolation prize.

Thanks for reading.