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Hi! I hope youāre doing well.
Itās difficult to encapsulate everything compatibility-related about yourself into a post, but Iām going to try my best to give you a condensed but good enough idea of who I am. Whether I did a decent job or not will be up to your discretion lol.
Physical stuff:
- Iām 173cm tall, weigh about 72kg, Caucasian, brunette, cisgender.
- I tend to keep my hair shoulder-length and I dress neutrally (meaning not super masc or femme-leaning, although Iād cave in and wear a summer dress if itās hot haha). I rarely use make-up, not because I think Iām good-looking without it, but because I donāt find it very interesting lol. That being said I donāt have anything against it, and people look great with or without it!
- Because Iāve yet to find a type of exercise I despise (except maybe HIIT, yikes), Iām in decent shape. Lately Iāve been getting more into strength training, and Iām enjoying actually seeing visible progressāaka getting more muscular. So perhaps if you dislike muscles, Iād be a bad long-term investment š¤Ŗ
Life stuff:
- Iām an accounting student; I also work part-time as a local travel agent.
- I pick up new interests easily, but the ones Iāve kept the longest are video games, learning about other languages/cultures, pets, reading, content creation, and writing fiction. When I was younger I had an anime and k-pop āphaseā (that admittedly never truly ended lol). These days I donāt have the same time or interest to keep up, but I still engage with it from time to time.
- Iām somewhere between ace and demi, meaning Iām not necessarily sex-repulsed, but that kind of intimacy is not important to me. Iām more interested in the romantic aspect of a relationship.
- I donāt smoke, drink, or do drugs.
- My ideal life is making enough money to not have to worry and being able to pursue the things Iām interested in. Iād like to try out what itās like to run my own business full-time, but would also be content working a day job and doing my thing on the side. I know I donāt want children, and so my life would just revolve around what me and my potential partner would want to do. I see myself as a simple person in that aspectāI donāt need to follow an exact vision of life to be happy.
Stuff Iām asking of you:
- Youāre located in Europe.
- Youāre 20-27 years old.
- Youāre monogamous.
- You donāt smoke or do drugs. Drinking in moderation is fine.
- You take care of your health.
- As a preference of aesthetics (as we aces like to call it haha), Iām drawn to femme-leaning girls more so than masculine.
- Youāre fine taking it slow. Perhaps be up for voice calling and playing a game together (Iām not much of a video caller). Depending on the distance it might be take a long time to get a good feel for each other and how we mesh, and Iād hate for someone to get hurt because we built up an incomplete image of a relationship in our minds. Iām going into this with the awareness that a reddit post is a shot in the dark and that I might just end up making a friend, and thatās fine.
- When you message me, please send me an introductionāperhaps a shorter version of mine (not looking to give you homework lol). I want to get an equally good idea of who you are. I know weāre on reddit right now so itās hard to take this seriously (haha), but I want to give this an honest effort, and so I suspect if you decide to message me you want that too.
If you made it this far, thank you, and Iām very excited to meet you! I know this inevitably kind of feels like a job posting lol, but I promise Iām not intimidating to talk to. If you want proof, youāll just have to message meā¦ very smooth, I know.
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