I'm divorced, starting my life anew, seeking my forever person. I am open to an LDR, and can potentially relocate in the medium-term if things progress that far.

About Me

• I am fat. Always have been. Not looking to change that right now. I am into fat liberation and am an advocate for people with large bodies to be treated like human beings.
• I am childfree; I do not want kids. This is a hard boundary.
• I am seeking monogamy only.
• I am a huge nerd/geek/fanboy. Tabletop RPGs are my main hobby, followed closely by all types of video games. I’m a movie and TV fan, especially sci fi and Marvel. Lover of comics and fantasy books. I’m a toy collector. Lover of 80s and 90s pop culture. Lifelong fan of Tolkien and Middle-earth.
• I am vaccinated, sober, and a non-smoker.
• I am leftist (socialist), anti-capitalist, pro-labor, anti-hierarchy, pro-BLM, pro-LGBTQIA
• I am loyal, giving, kind, compassionate, an advocate for those I care about, passionate, assertive, and introspective. I have much love to give to others. I show up for those I care about and I give 100% when I love someone.
• I am mildly autistic, sensitive, and very in tune with my emotions.
• I am on the asexual spectrum, specifically aegosexual. I feel intense sexual attraction but I am less interested in actual sex.
• My love languages are words of affirmation, touch, and acts of service.

About You

I'm seeking a partner. I want communication. Compassion. Kindness. Thoughtfulness. Authenticity. Honesty. Attentiveness. Nurturing. The ability to be vulnerable. Emotional intelligence. Someone who reciprocates the energy and effort I bring.

• Someone who is investing in their mental health.
• Someone mature and serious about being in a relationship. No games, no stringing along, no flings or one-night stands. I want someone who is ready to love and be loved.
• Someone who can share a fandom with me, play video games with me, watch movies and shows with me, and the like.
• Someone who is comfortable being a homebody, who values quiet time and calm and reflection.
• Don’t smoke, it's a dealbreaker. Drinking in moderation is okay. Not a fan of the funny rope but if you do it in moderation I can tolerate it.
• Emotional availability.
• Be fat-positive and sex-positive.
• Be some form of left-leaning politically.
• Be fat yourself. Thick, rubenesque, curvy, thick, chubby, whatever you want to call it. I love BBWs.