Hi, I've reached a point in my life where I sadly haven't got anyone to really feel connected to. I have like.. Two or three souls I can rely on and two of them are cats. And I've also realised that as wonderful as said cats may be.. I crave someone to form a real and meaningful bond with. Someone I can love, care for and cuddle the hell out of. Someone I can talk to night and day about whatever is on my mind. Someone to experience life with and someone to really feel alive with.

I'm a thirty year old guy from the south coast of England. I don't work at the moment, so this means that my free time is almost boundless. I'd absolutely love to game, watch movies, listen to music together, just chat or whatever! I'm not the most social or extroverted person, I'll be the first to admit that I'm not a simple person. I have a bunch of quirks and I have several issues I struggle with such as an awful case of anxiety and OCD. But I'll always try my best to be good company and brighten your day! Even if just for a moment.

I'm pale, I'm six foot tall with fairly long dark brown hair and hazel eyes. I'm pretty much always wearing glasses as my vision has decided to gradually give up on me and I prefer to keep to an alternative kind of aesthetic (I guess it could be described as a mix between gothic and anime streetwear). I also have a couple of piercings and may or may not decide on tattoos in the future. Probably something in a biomechanical style. Kinda like a robotic arm! You know, cyberpunk vibes.

I'm a laid back, mostly calm kind of guy and I'm always doing my best to remain optimistic. Life's tough, so it's nice to get away from all of that. On the flipside, I have quite an eccentric, cynical and at times quite a dark sense of humour. So I definitely get along best with others that aren't quick to take offense. And I'm usually pretty playful when I've grown comfy around someone. It does take me a bit to warm up, especially on voice calls.. But afterwards, I'm a very loyal person.

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• ᴠɪᴅᴇᴏ ɢᴀᴍᴇs 🎮
I'm a PC gamer and I don't have any consoles at the moment sadly. I play a lot of games and hopefully you do as well! I'd love to have somebody to play co-op with! I play a wide variety of genres but my favourites will always be RPG games such as Assassin's Creed, Borderlands, Genshin Impact, Persona, Dragon Age, Mass Effect, The Witcher, Fallout and The Elder Scrolls. Or completely different things such as Rocket League. Or even more casual things like Stardew Valley or Terraria or Golf It! I've also played many MMOs in my time and wouldn't rule them out!

• ᴀɴɪᴍᴇ 🎌
I love to binge watch anime although I don't really like doing so by myself! It's just not as much fun and I tend to get distracted too easily.. So, if you are into it, or are willing to try it, that's a bonus as well! I like a wide variety of it, though my favourites are Gintama, Beelzebub, Assassination Classroom, Death Parade, Re:Zero and Soul Eater.

• sʜᴏᴡs ᴀɴᴅ ᴍᴏᴠɪᴇs 🎥
Some shows that I like/have liked are It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia (my permanent number one pick), What We Do In The Shadows, Rick & Morty, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Community, Arrested Development, Archer.. Aaaand who could ever forget Friends? When it comes to movies.. I like comedies, thrillers, horrors, mysteries and especially anything psychological. Oh and lots of superhero stuff! Again, if we could watch stuff together, it'd be awesome.

• ᴍᴜsɪᴄ 🎶
EDM (Electronic Dance Music) and the many, many sub genres has always had my heart. With Porter Robinson being my favourite artist. Although I've been through many phases and some stuff has stuck with me including rock, metal (mostly prog stuff) and various random hip hop artists. Or even just simple pop. In general, I'll give anything a go, no matter the genre and I'd love to share musical interests.

• ᴀɴɪᴍᴀʟs 🐈
I adore animals. Probably more than I like most human beings in all honesty. Especially felines or other fluffy bundles of joy. Other than my kitties, I have five little degus (small rodents) but unfortunately they couldn't come with me to my new place, so they're with family.

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• ᴡʜᴀᴛ ɪ·ᴍ ʟᴏᴏᴋɪɴɢ ғᴏʀ
I'm not really the most picky person out there when it comes to a relationship. I don't mind how old you are, as long as you're over eighteen and.. I guess not TOO much older (let's say ten years older at most). I don't mind where you're from as long as you're interested in meeting up someday as I don't want to stay virtual forever. I don't have a preference about looks either. What's important is that we connect deeply on an emotional level. What I do however see as non-negotiable is that I'll only ever consider a completely dedicated, monogamous relationship.

As you'd expect on this subreddit, I'm also looking for a nonsexual relationship. However I am very happy to give and receive physical affection once I'm comfy with someone. I'm also understanding of those who for whatever reason do not like that kinda stuff.

Communication would ideally be on Discord. And voice calls would be something I'd ideally want to do at least semi-often. Although I may possibly be open to other platforms if necessary. I'm happy to start off messaging back and forth on Reddit though.

So! If my long, long message has interested you enough to reach out.. Great! If you think that we'd get along well, even if it'd only be as friends, do go ahead and send me a message introducing yourself, telling me a bit about yourself and your interests so that I can learn about you too!