Just your garden-variety early 40s divorced man who discovered as a result of said divorce that he was on both the ace and autism spectrums. Still navigating the new life I find myself in, but I’m in a better place than I’ve ever been.

Pics in my profile. As you can see from them, I’m a fat guy. That’s not gonna change. Please don’t bother if that’s an issue for you.

I’m a lifelong nerd and fanboy. Comics, sci fi, fantasy, movies, TV, pop culture, retro 80s and 90s shit, toys, video games, and even a little bit of baseball. I would like to meet someone who shares some of these areas of interest.

I’m mildly autistic; I can pass pretty easily. I’m sensitive and introverted and have a limited amount of spoons to spend on social stuff. I’m a homebody, and like my peace and quiet, though I’m happy to share that with a like-minded person. I identify as aegosexual, and maybe graysexual. You can look those up if you want. I feel sexual attraction and like touch and some sexy stuff, but I’m not a big fan of actual sex. That’s not changing either.

I’m a leftist/socialist atheist humanist. I believe in the scientific method and want to believe as many true things and as few false things as I can. I’d prefer someone who thought similarly. Please no god-botherers.

I’m a dog lover, but I’m allergic to cats. Not necessarily a dealbreaker but just FYI. I have two dogs of my own. Closest thing I’ll ever have to kids. Speaking of, I don’t want kids. That is a dealbreaker. Not big on family; mine is out of my life. But very much interested in a long-term friend and companion and confidant.

Looking for stability, authenticity, sensitivity, kindness, and intellect. I’m very attracted to bigger girls, BBWs or whatever you want to call it. I like big butts, nor can I prevaricate. Partial to redheads and brunettes. Love a southern/appalachian accent. Glasses are sexy. If you’re into ASMR, that’d be delightful.

I’m in Kentucky right now but I’m pretty eager to move elsewhere eventually. My job is remote so I can go pretty much where I want. So I’m down for an LDR, at first. But please be willing/able to travel if you’re far away. I’m kinda interested in the PNW if you’re in that neck of the woods, but anywhere is fine if you’re the girl I’ve been hoping for.