Hi! I'm a divorced 43 year old nerd in Lexington, KY. I've only recently figured out I'm on the ace spectrum. I'm fall under the microlabel of aegosexual, or maybe graysexual as well. I still feel sexual attraction, I just don't want actual sex. Facts about me:

• I’m fat and proud, and am an advocate for fat liberation.
• I am childfree, and do not want kids.
• I’m sensitive, smart, witty, love pop culture, especially of the vintage variety, am a huge geek, and a lover of collectibles, games, movies, TV, scifi, fantasy, and technology.
• I’m a socialist, believe in social justice and leftist policy.
• I’m an LGBTQ ally (and now, I guess I’m a flavor of queer myself!)
• I work but am not career-driven or overly focused on material wealth.
• I’m a big believer in and advocate of psychology, healing, self-improvement, and mental health.
• I’m an atheist.
• I’m a dog lover, with two of my own.
• I’m an introvert, a couch potato, a quiet person who enjoys staying in and being close rather than big adventures.

I’m seeking my person. I’ve started a new chapter in my life after my divorce and am looking for a fulfilling relationship that will last a long time if not forever. I’m ready to live my best life and be who I want and need to be with a partner who wants the same things. I’m only looking for monogamy.

I’m interested in women who are quirky, confident, honest, sensitive, intellectual, dorky, nerdy, and who are very kind, patient, and gentle. I’d love a partner who I can share my hobbies and interests with, a person to go out to eat with, to binge shows with, to take the dogs on walks with, to game with. Someone who broadens my horizons and opens my eyes to things I’ve never considered before. Someone who is an excellent communicator, knows what they need and want in a relationship, and knows how to resolve conflicts healthily. Someone who takes care of their mental health. Maturity, but still able to be a kid at heart.

Physically, I love bigger women, so bring on the BBWs! It has always been a dream of mine to be with a woman who is a great baker. I’m a pretty good cook but baking eludes me. Make us cakes and pies to share and I’ll be yours forever!

The number one thing I’m attracted to is authenticity. Be who you are, truly, without a care for what others think. Be true to yourself and to others. Be real.

I'm open to long distance within the US, but I'd prefer a drivable distance as air travel is hard for me. I'm also open to relocating down the line potentially.

<3 Thanks for reading <3