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Hi, I'm new here. 34F Demisexual. This is just a rant and question. I've been having a difficult time finding someone I can connect with emotionally, not just physically. So far, I have been messaged by ppl who just want ONS or FWB. While I understand that people have preferences. It is still pretty disheartening because I am more than just a pretty face. I truly would like to get to know an individual for who they are. What makes them ..them, you know? What do they love to do? What curiosities do they have in life? How they became who they are right now? I just find all of these things more important than what they are physically. I just feel that people are human beings with an abundant amount of emotions, not toys to be played with for momentarily excitement. Does anyone else feel this way?
Thank you for taking the time to read, and I hope you all have a good morning/ afternoon or night wherever you are.
I 100% feel you! Iām Demi and poly too.
Iām sure my experience as a male is somewhat different. I donāt get too many people who go straight for the NSA relationship/hookup. I do get them though. I just send them on their way. Sometimes they donāt take that rejection so well! I almost hate to say it but I get a certain sense of satisfaction from it š
Most quickly loose interest when I donāt immediately go to or reciprocate the flirting or flattery. So for me itās a numbers game. I just talk to TONS of people and try to keep faith that itāll happen. Eventually it does!!! Those connections are out there! Just keep plugging away at it and donāt try to make something from nothingā¦thatās how I do it anyway. It works!
I always ālikeā/try to talk to Demi people when I cross them on the apps. Iāve made a few Demi friends along the way and I recommend this as well. Theyāve been a great support system. Youāre definitely not alone
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